Even the experts, like Eric Vilain, a pediatric geneticist at UCLA, says “humans do not appear to be born with particular arousal patterns—babies aren’t gay or straight.” He suggested we think about the question a different way: Do we see evidence that, from a very early age, children exhibit behavior patterns that appear highly predictive of future sexual orientation?
I know I’ve talked about it before, but I don’t think you guys understand truly how miserable I was. But on the other hand, like the poem says, I would have suffered a greater loss if I’d missed what He was doing in me. We cannot appreciate the fullness of love without first feeling alone. Seeing everyone else have what you want more than anything is harder. Looking back, I can see very clearly why I needed to wait until the time when I met CJ.