Gay young dating

07-Mar-2018 18:59

How do gay culture and society at large feel about the boys, teens and men who pine for older lovers?

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“Every time I’ve ever told the story, I am compelled to tell people how seductive I was,” he told the writer.“I wasn’t necessarily seeking older people, but that was what was available to me at the time.”It wasn’t until recently that David began to question whether the relationship was wholly consensual.“I don’t feel like I was victimized, but I also feel like I could have been fine without some college student intervening on my behalf.David*, who’s now in his early 30s, has conflicting feelings about a relationship he initiated with a 19-year-old college student when he was a junior in high school. “He was only four years older at the time, but it made a difference,” he tells me.“He had a huge impact on how I perceived myself and my sexuality and what life could be like outside of where I was, which was a very repressed high school existence.”“Especially if you’re not in a heavily populated metropolitan area, I guess in some ways it’s more understandable if you end up hooking up with someone 20 or 30 years your senior,” he adds.

“Every time I’ve ever told the story, I am compelled to tell people how seductive I was,” he told the writer.“I wasn’t necessarily seeking older people, but that was what was available to me at the time.”It wasn’t until recently that David began to question whether the relationship was wholly consensual.“I don’t feel like I was victimized, but I also feel like I could have been fine without some college student intervening on my behalf.David*, who’s now in his early 30s, has conflicting feelings about a relationship he initiated with a 19-year-old college student when he was a junior in high school. “He was only four years older at the time, but it made a difference,” he tells me.“He had a huge impact on how I perceived myself and my sexuality and what life could be like outside of where I was, which was a very repressed high school existence.”“Especially if you’re not in a heavily populated metropolitan area, I guess in some ways it’s more understandable if you end up hooking up with someone 20 or 30 years your senior,” he adds.“The deaths of our gay fathers to AIDS made this retreat literal and final,” he adds.